Thanks to my friend and mentor, Dennis Ng, I have the chance to attend the National Achievers Congress 2011 at Singapore Expo.
The first speaker was Adam Ginsberg (speaker and trainer on making money online using eBay, Amazon, etc). And as I am typing now, the second one is some forex trader - Greg Secker, which I am not really interested so I'd rather blog what I have learned from the first speaker.
Two of the important messages by Adam were:
1. I matter
2. What kind of legacy would you want to leave after you die?
I thought it was funny that an Internet entrepreneur was sharing about legacy. But then I understand, he just wrote a book that has not sold yet in the market which he was generous enough to give everyone in the room a copy. Voila, mine as shown in the photo.
Grateful. That's how I am feeling right now.
So, what else do I learn from this generous author?
1. It is possible.
Quite straight forward. Whatever you think or not is possible. A motivational start to my sleepy morning.
2. What you talk about, happens. If you don't want it to happen, don't talk about it.
This is my most favourite quote or lesson ever. Give it a thought, cause I will try to internalize it every day. I hope you will see some profound truth in it.
3. When you argue for your limitations, you get to keep them.
Quite similar to lesson #2. If one keeps complaining about their shortcomings, when will they ever improved? They have no time to think about solutions or to move forward because they are addicted to the attention they get by blabbering about what they can't do something.
4. In life, you may have the most grandiose goals and dreams. But unexpected things may happen that caught you off guard.
Life, as fragile as it seems already, may throw you some challenges here and there when you don't expect them. For example, a few years back in late August (can't remember the exact year), Adam was talking to his mom in the morning. His mom looked a bit tired so he asked her to rest and take it easy. The mom said okay. He said,"I love you, mom." and his mom replied,"I love you too." 3 hours later his father called and told him that his mom has passed away.
Now I understand what he meant when he said,"Today is the last day of my lasting legacy."
Because every breathing and heart-beating moment, you are creating a legacy. Whether your legacy will be remembered and provide certain value; they are really up to you. This sure gets me thinking.
On random note, sharing a snapshot with my not so good phone camera of Mr. Incredible Hulk - Lou Ferrigno who made a short appearance for today.
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3 comments:
DD, Great advice and great pic! I was the Incredible Hulk for Halloween when I was a kid.
Nate
O, I thought you were at the one in London!
I admire your willingness to be inspired by achieveres like those, I am such a closed clam who keeps hoping that one day the light will shine if I wish for it so very hard.
I will read this post a few times and rething things.
Thank you DD xxx
(BTW, when did your blog become your own web site, or am I being dranged?)
Nate: thanks. D u still have the pic of that?
Dee: if I ever go to London, I bet I will notify u in advanced! ;p
I saw the poster for NAC 2011 London. Omg, so many interesting guest speakers - Lord Sugar and Richard Branson. How I wish I could be there.
Thanks for the kind words. I was quite a seminar junkie. I went for the one with Robert Kiyosaki & Bill Clintin. After that I stopped. This time thanks to my friend who gave me the chance to win free ticket, I went again but have to miss today and tomorrow session as my parents are here. I really enjoy going to seminars. Though nowadays the speakers try to sell more things rather than teaching, but, if one pay attention close enough, there are things to be learned.
Don't give up, Dee. The light may already be shining on you, you just can't see it yet?
You are welcome n I'm glad u enjoy reading it.
Btw, my blog has always been my name for years already haha.
Random note, r u on fb?
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