2.5 yrs ago, I was blinded ... I was never really involved in refurnishing a house until I got this job. Yep ... it's in the line of property and I've really learned a great deal from it. When browsing around, I stumbled upon this website and it reminded me on my first encounter with the world of curtains and blinds. Since then, I've never taken them for granted.
I was tasked to renovate a 4 bedroom apartments and oh boy ... one of the key important factor is to cover the windows with the right cover. For the first time in my life I need to be faced with the word, curtains, venetian blinds, roller blinds, etc .... Huah ... Overwhelmed.
And I also learned that there's a technique in measuring the right way before installing any curtains or blinds. It's the key factor for effective usage of cloth and ultimately, it fits in to your budget.
Covering up the window may appear to be an easy peasy task but actually it's not only a skill, it's an art. I hope you'll have fun when you encounter such adventure. It's an amazing learning experience.
Monday, May 21, 2007
Friday, May 18, 2007
When There Are Will and Passion ...
there'll always be ways ...
Speaking about determination and perseverance, nothing beats the following video so far. It's truly inspiring and ... towards the end it almost made my heart stopped. When the whole mediocre people are complaining on what they don't have (when they still can walk), here's this young man who see beyond on what he doesn't have and work it out as one of the most beautiful piece of art.
Hope he'll keep on dancing and one day may perform around the world.
P.S. Just found out their names are Reynaldo and Claudia. And more videos ...
Speaking about determination and perseverance, nothing beats the following video so far. It's truly inspiring and ... towards the end it almost made my heart stopped. When the whole mediocre people are complaining on what they don't have (when they still can walk), here's this young man who see beyond on what he doesn't have and work it out as one of the most beautiful piece of art.
Hope he'll keep on dancing and one day may perform around the world.
P.S. Just found out their names are Reynaldo and Claudia. And more videos ...
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
What Makes You Feel Alive?
So ... what makes you feel really ALIVE?
I've asked a few people to give me one-word answer ... though some of them did ramble and their answer can easily fill up an A4 size paper ... but most of them are pretty interesting ...
What do I mean by being alive?
To me ... it brings you joy so much that even it only lasted for 10 seconds but that 10 seconds feels like a lifetime and you'll cherish it as long as your heart still beats.
My personal answer is I feel alive when I give. Giving makes me feel alive. Not during someone's birthday but when someone is not expecting and knowing that they appreciate
and grateful for what I've done ... that feeling feeds me like oxygen.
Some people say crying makes them feel alive ... some say drawing ... some say when they are inspired and ...
-.- oh my goodness ... i just got one answer that asked me to wait until tonight and I'll get the answer .... -.-
Anyway, one of the most profound answer I've got is when my friend said "breathing". And hence my nickname now says D.D. is breathing ... another friend of mine said it's inevitable that we are breathing but to me ... human has taken breathing for granted. It's the source of life and the first step to make you feel ALIVE.
Imagine at every breath that you take, you feel the joy and richness in life ... I don't need to wait till I give to make me feel "alive" I just need to breathe ... isn't that amazing and profound?
I'm not sure whether this friend of mine will ever read my blog but I wanna thank her for her profound answer though she may be crapping at that moment ... as she changed her answer in the end but to me it's the best answer I've ever heard and I'll remember it every time I breathe.
I've asked a few people to give me one-word answer ... though some of them did ramble and their answer can easily fill up an A4 size paper ... but most of them are pretty interesting ...
What do I mean by being alive?
To me ... it brings you joy so much that even it only lasted for 10 seconds but that 10 seconds feels like a lifetime and you'll cherish it as long as your heart still beats.
My personal answer is I feel alive when I give. Giving makes me feel alive. Not during someone's birthday but when someone is not expecting and knowing that they appreciate
and grateful for what I've done ... that feeling feeds me like oxygen.
Some people say crying makes them feel alive ... some say drawing ... some say when they are inspired and ...
-.- oh my goodness ... i just got one answer that asked me to wait until tonight and I'll get the answer .... -.-
Anyway, one of the most profound answer I've got is when my friend said "breathing". And hence my nickname now says D.D. is breathing ... another friend of mine said it's inevitable that we are breathing but to me ... human has taken breathing for granted. It's the source of life and the first step to make you feel ALIVE.
Imagine at every breath that you take, you feel the joy and richness in life ... I don't need to wait till I give to make me feel "alive" I just need to breathe ... isn't that amazing and profound?
I'm not sure whether this friend of mine will ever read my blog but I wanna thank her for her profound answer though she may be crapping at that moment ... as she changed her answer in the end but to me it's the best answer I've ever heard and I'll remember it every time I breathe.
Friday, May 11, 2007
Oprah Winfrey Tops List of 'Most Generous' Celebs
Yay .... my godmother (I wish) tops the chart for being generous and giving!!
Check out the news from ABS-CBN Interactive:
http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/storypage.aspx?StoryId=76758
It says "Oprah Winfrey has come top of a new survey to find the most generous celebrity philanthropists, donating more than $50 million of her fortune to charity last year."
Something I hope that I can follow suit one day. Keep on giving, momma! HAHAHA -.-
Check out the news from ABS-CBN Interactive:
http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/storypage.aspx?StoryId=76758
It says "Oprah Winfrey has come top of a new survey to find the most generous celebrity philanthropists, donating more than $50 million of her fortune to charity last year."
Something I hope that I can follow suit one day. Keep on giving, momma! HAHAHA -.-
Monday, May 7, 2007
Cellphone That Saves Lives
Have you heard of cellphone that saves lives?
I did. Through Sheryl Crow's advertisement below:
But, the real kick was when I watched Oprah and Bono went shopping. So, I got myself into shopping mode too and I remembered Sheryl Crow in the process and voila, MotoRAZR Red is mine now. :p
Oprah & Bono Went Shopping:
The (RED) Campaign was originated by Bono (U2) and Bobby Shriver. What a brilliant concept where people can spend and save at the same time. I'm so so sold. Together they have created the (RED) campaign that supports The Global Fund and up to date they have achieved the following in less than 4 years:
· 770,000 people with treatment for HIV and AIDS
· nearly 9 million people with voluntary HIV testing
· more than 1 million orphans with care and support
· 2 million people with treatment for tuberculosis
· more than 22 million people treated for malaria
· nearly 18 million families with insecticide-treated mosquito nets
So, after being so sold by Sheryl Crow & Oprah (who else...), I went to get my own MotoRAZR V3M RED to support this noble cause. Not that I need another phone. I've never fancied any other phone than Nokia. But, since it's my long time fetish to own a flip phone and since this flip phone will buy so many pills for the AIDS victims in Africa. Why not?
And on top of that, I have great friends who are supporting this cause in our own unique way. We get a new spoke person to promote the MotoRAZR RED and that is our beloved Doraemon (whom Miss Cooking Pot said the shape of his head is the same as the shape of his buttock -.-) and Doraemon is doing the same ad as Sheryl Crow (well, last part of it) and we are doing it in 4 different languages (except Japanese, unfortunately, none of us know how to translate that :p). So we started off with English, Bahasa Indonesia, Cantonese and finally Hok Kien.
Since we are amateurs, we did mistake for the first time round, here's our NG (No Good) shot due to Miss Cooking Pot who forgot her line -.-.
Hope you'll be inspired and continue to support the (RED) Project. :-) You can find out more at www.joinred.com.
I am also sharing more videos by other celebrities but nobody has made an impact like Sheryl Crow did.
Chester Bennington (Linkin Park):
Chris Rock:
Kanye West:
For the complete list of other artists who are promoting the Motorola Red, you can check out this link. You may find others like Rick Rubin, Molly Sims and Shaun White. They are all awesome.
Join (RED)! Save Lives!
I did. Through Sheryl Crow's advertisement below:
But, the real kick was when I watched Oprah and Bono went shopping. So, I got myself into shopping mode too and I remembered Sheryl Crow in the process and voila, MotoRAZR Red is mine now. :p
Oprah & Bono Went Shopping:
The (RED) Campaign was originated by Bono (U2) and Bobby Shriver. What a brilliant concept where people can spend and save at the same time. I'm so so sold. Together they have created the (RED) campaign that supports The Global Fund and up to date they have achieved the following in less than 4 years:
· 770,000 people with treatment for HIV and AIDS
· nearly 9 million people with voluntary HIV testing
· more than 1 million orphans with care and support
· 2 million people with treatment for tuberculosis
· more than 22 million people treated for malaria
· nearly 18 million families with insecticide-treated mosquito nets
So, after being so sold by Sheryl Crow & Oprah (who else...), I went to get my own MotoRAZR V3M RED to support this noble cause. Not that I need another phone. I've never fancied any other phone than Nokia. But, since it's my long time fetish to own a flip phone and since this flip phone will buy so many pills for the AIDS victims in Africa. Why not?
And on top of that, I have great friends who are supporting this cause in our own unique way. We get a new spoke person to promote the MotoRAZR RED and that is our beloved Doraemon (whom Miss Cooking Pot said the shape of his head is the same as the shape of his buttock -.-) and Doraemon is doing the same ad as Sheryl Crow (well, last part of it) and we are doing it in 4 different languages (except Japanese, unfortunately, none of us know how to translate that :p). So we started off with English, Bahasa Indonesia, Cantonese and finally Hok Kien.
Since we are amateurs, we did mistake for the first time round, here's our NG (No Good) shot due to Miss Cooking Pot who forgot her line -.-.
Hope you'll be inspired and continue to support the (RED) Project. :-) You can find out more at www.joinred.com.
I am also sharing more videos by other celebrities but nobody has made an impact like Sheryl Crow did.
Chester Bennington (Linkin Park):
Chris Rock:
Kanye West:
For the complete list of other artists who are promoting the Motorola Red, you can check out this link. You may find others like Rick Rubin, Molly Sims and Shaun White. They are all awesome.
Join (RED)! Save Lives!
Friday, May 4, 2007
Special Appearances At Qian Hu
How did you spend your Labour's Day?
Well, I was still labouring in the morning by teaching tuition but in the afternoon, I went to a place I've never been before. It's called - QIAN HU! It's a fish farm and I was on the quest to hunt for my next toilet buddy with The Mushroom and The Cooking Pot. Yes ... another Beng and Lian's family member.
The place was awesome ... wanna see whom I met? Let's see hmmm ... there were some celebrities there, you know? I'll show you one of them first ....
So this is ... Jolie-look-a-like fish .. don't you think her lips are so kissable? :p ... WEKS! Unfortunately, it's injected by human :( ... not as natural as AJ's lips. HUAH.
Next, we have a Siamese Turtle. Yes! It has two heads. I'm not sure to call it turtle or turtles. -.-
Oh ya .... the white mini lobster ... isn't it cute?? I wonder whether he's albino or not. Hmm ....
Then finally, the new addition to my family ... to the left is my roommate's Flappy and to the right is no other than the reputable family member of the Beng. I call him ... Yin Yang Beng. Why??? Because he's balanced ... black and white. :p He ain't pretty but heck ... he has dat Beng look! I like. HAHA.
After choosing Yin Yang Beng, I brought him touring around the farm and here's one good shot when he was looking at the parrot fish.
After the touring and the shopping, we finally went to hunt for Flappy & Yin Yang Beng's food. After we have made our choice (not sure it's good or not as Flappy is not eating but Beng being Beng is pretty happy about it :p), we made payment to it. And then ... we met another "celebrity" animal!! Can you believe it? But this time, only Miss Cooking Pot has the honour to have that priceless encounter. (Honestly, I wouldn't mind to lose this honour :p) ...
What happened was, I was walking around with Miss Cooking Pot as Miss Mushroom was busy at the cashier's counter. Suddenly, one lady approached Miss Cooking Pot and said she had something on her back ... without knowing what it was, Miss Cooking Pot used all her energy to grab me and keep shouting "HELP ME HELP ME HELP ME" .... and the lady who knew what it was said "I don't want" ... Her answer apparently didn't have much calming effect on our poor Miss Cooking Pot. I wanted to help but I couldn't, I was grabbed so tight as if I'm a balloon that was going to fly away. -.-
Luckily there's one hero (which I believed is the husband of that lady) who told us that it's Mr. Se-piderman was on her body and he courageously captured it with tissue and squashed it. (Too bad I don't have any pic on this. Need to ask Miss Cooking Pot to draw it out - OI PANCI, DRAW LER). So, there you go ... the all BLACK MR. Se-piderman paid Miss Cooking Pot a visit at the fish farm. I've no idea how it gets there but ... may be because Spiderman 3 is showing and they are heavily promoting the black suit, so Mr. Black Se-piderman also wanted to do some promotion to Miss Cooking Pot. Too bad, that he ended up .... squashed -.- So much for Peter Parker's adventure.
Anyway, enough of those celebrities madness, time to showcase Flappy & Yin Yang Beng. :-)
This is the elegant Miss Flappy (actually it's a he .... but he looks too elegant so shall call him Miss)
And finally, my new toilet buddy - Yin Yang Beng! ;-) Glad to have you in our house. Yippee!
Oh ya ... we also tried to make them "fight" through the glass and had a video on it ... apologize that you need to watch it by tilting your head to the side ... this is because our super amateur camerawoman was on drug. She mistakenly ate the fish food we got from the fish farm. So .... I apologize for any neck pain caused.
Ying Yang Beng vs Flappy - S01E01
The first one was captured with my camera which I thought couldn't be uploaded to Youtube -.- Hell I was wrong ... anyway here's the transcript:
(At first it was silence everyone is trying hard to hold their breath but then it failed and hell broke loose)
Miss Cooking Pot: Start already ah ... Ha ha ha ha
Me: Gagal (means failed in Bahasa Indonesia). Use my handphone lar. Your one can't put in youtube one.
Miss Mushroom: Ah really ah? Eh, Say lar...
So embarassing -.- apparently it can be put in youtube! OMG.
Ying Yang Beng vs Flappy - S01E02
So we switched by using my handphone and everyone was still holding their breath and tried to only whisper to communicate but ....... -.-
Miss Cooking Pot: (Pointing at Yin Yang Beng) He's eating ... Wakakaka ... Bo Chap (Ignorant)
Me: You all wanna fight fight lar. I wanna eat.
Miss Cooking Pot: Ya lor. Haha.
Miss Mushroom: Eh don't laugh ler. I'm shaking, man, if I laugh.
Me: My Ah Beng..... I have no face anymore.
Miss Mushroom: Aiyoh, Flappy so pretty.
Me: Eat some more. Eat some more!!! Fight lah you .... Haiya ... World Peace
Miss Mushroom: Gong gong (stupid), man!
Me: Cape (tired) already lar ..
Miss Cooking Pot: Ya lar I think cape already
Me: Don't fight already lar. Peace out. Peace out, dude. Where is the love ....
Miss Cooking Pot: You said Peace out, dude. Then Flappy said Piss on you.
All: HAHAHAHHA!!
Me: I think this video gone case already
(The video was paused for a few seconds as they didn't seem to be fighting and then when they did, we recorded again)
Miss Mushroom: Where?
Me: There? They are fighting. They are camera shy.
Me: Forget it lah ... done already lar ...
Miss Mushroom: No no .. it's going on. It's still going on. So I stop ah?
Me: You paused just now ah?
Miss Mushroom: I don't know. Anyway should I keep going on?
Miss Cooking Pot: Be right back. Be right back.
Miss Mushroom: Should I keep going on?
Me: Up to you lar
The end ....
OMG -.- the way we all talk ... I guess anybody who normally speak proper English will be so puzzled and may need to be hospitalized. I love my Singlish and guess now everyone knows why I name my fish Beng & Lian. :p Like owner like pet. :p
Well, I was still labouring in the morning by teaching tuition but in the afternoon, I went to a place I've never been before. It's called - QIAN HU! It's a fish farm and I was on the quest to hunt for my next toilet buddy with The Mushroom and The Cooking Pot. Yes ... another Beng and Lian's family member.
The place was awesome ... wanna see whom I met? Let's see hmmm ... there were some celebrities there, you know? I'll show you one of them first ....
So this is ... Jolie-look-a-like fish .. don't you think her lips are so kissable? :p ... WEKS! Unfortunately, it's injected by human :( ... not as natural as AJ's lips. HUAH.
Next, we have a Siamese Turtle. Yes! It has two heads. I'm not sure to call it turtle or turtles. -.-
Oh ya .... the white mini lobster ... isn't it cute?? I wonder whether he's albino or not. Hmm ....
Then finally, the new addition to my family ... to the left is my roommate's Flappy and to the right is no other than the reputable family member of the Beng. I call him ... Yin Yang Beng. Why??? Because he's balanced ... black and white. :p He ain't pretty but heck ... he has dat Beng look! I like. HAHA.
After choosing Yin Yang Beng, I brought him touring around the farm and here's one good shot when he was looking at the parrot fish.
After the touring and the shopping, we finally went to hunt for Flappy & Yin Yang Beng's food. After we have made our choice (not sure it's good or not as Flappy is not eating but Beng being Beng is pretty happy about it :p), we made payment to it. And then ... we met another "celebrity" animal!! Can you believe it? But this time, only Miss Cooking Pot has the honour to have that priceless encounter. (Honestly, I wouldn't mind to lose this honour :p) ...
What happened was, I was walking around with Miss Cooking Pot as Miss Mushroom was busy at the cashier's counter. Suddenly, one lady approached Miss Cooking Pot and said she had something on her back ... without knowing what it was, Miss Cooking Pot used all her energy to grab me and keep shouting "HELP ME HELP ME HELP ME" .... and the lady who knew what it was said "I don't want" ... Her answer apparently didn't have much calming effect on our poor Miss Cooking Pot. I wanted to help but I couldn't, I was grabbed so tight as if I'm a balloon that was going to fly away. -.-
Luckily there's one hero (which I believed is the husband of that lady) who told us that it's Mr. Se-piderman was on her body and he courageously captured it with tissue and squashed it. (Too bad I don't have any pic on this. Need to ask Miss Cooking Pot to draw it out - OI PANCI, DRAW LER). So, there you go ... the all BLACK MR. Se-piderman paid Miss Cooking Pot a visit at the fish farm. I've no idea how it gets there but ... may be because Spiderman 3 is showing and they are heavily promoting the black suit, so Mr. Black Se-piderman also wanted to do some promotion to Miss Cooking Pot. Too bad, that he ended up .... squashed -.- So much for Peter Parker's adventure.
Anyway, enough of those celebrities madness, time to showcase Flappy & Yin Yang Beng. :-)
This is the elegant Miss Flappy (actually it's a he .... but he looks too elegant so shall call him Miss)
And finally, my new toilet buddy - Yin Yang Beng! ;-) Glad to have you in our house. Yippee!
Oh ya ... we also tried to make them "fight" through the glass and had a video on it ... apologize that you need to watch it by tilting your head to the side ... this is because our super amateur camerawoman was on drug. She mistakenly ate the fish food we got from the fish farm. So .... I apologize for any neck pain caused.
Ying Yang Beng vs Flappy - S01E01
The first one was captured with my camera which I thought couldn't be uploaded to Youtube -.- Hell I was wrong ... anyway here's the transcript:
(At first it was silence everyone is trying hard to hold their breath but then it failed and hell broke loose)
Miss Cooking Pot: Start already ah ... Ha ha ha ha
Me: Gagal (means failed in Bahasa Indonesia). Use my handphone lar. Your one can't put in youtube one.
Miss Mushroom: Ah really ah? Eh, Say lar...
So embarassing -.- apparently it can be put in youtube! OMG.
Ying Yang Beng vs Flappy - S01E02
So we switched by using my handphone and everyone was still holding their breath and tried to only whisper to communicate but ....... -.-
Miss Cooking Pot: (Pointing at Yin Yang Beng) He's eating ... Wakakaka ... Bo Chap (Ignorant)
Me: You all wanna fight fight lar. I wanna eat.
Miss Cooking Pot: Ya lor. Haha.
Miss Mushroom: Eh don't laugh ler. I'm shaking, man, if I laugh.
Me: My Ah Beng..... I have no face anymore.
Miss Mushroom: Aiyoh, Flappy so pretty.
Me: Eat some more. Eat some more!!! Fight lah you .... Haiya ... World Peace
Miss Mushroom: Gong gong (stupid), man!
Me: Cape (tired) already lar ..
Miss Cooking Pot: Ya lar I think cape already
Me: Don't fight already lar. Peace out. Peace out, dude. Where is the love ....
Miss Cooking Pot: You said Peace out, dude. Then Flappy said Piss on you.
All: HAHAHAHHA!!
Me: I think this video gone case already
(The video was paused for a few seconds as they didn't seem to be fighting and then when they did, we recorded again)
Miss Mushroom: Where?
Me: There? They are fighting. They are camera shy.
Me: Forget it lah ... done already lar ...
Miss Mushroom: No no .. it's going on. It's still going on. So I stop ah?
Me: You paused just now ah?
Miss Mushroom: I don't know. Anyway should I keep going on?
Miss Cooking Pot: Be right back. Be right back.
Miss Mushroom: Should I keep going on?
Me: Up to you lar
The end ....
OMG -.- the way we all talk ... I guess anybody who normally speak proper English will be so puzzled and may need to be hospitalized. I love my Singlish and guess now everyone knows why I name my fish Beng & Lian. :p Like owner like pet. :p
Thursday, April 26, 2007
知多知少难知足
I have been a Karaoke Maniac these few days. Went twice in a row. Madness ... but learned something from some of the lyrics and this time it's one of the oldest uncle and aunty oldie song titled - “Xin Yuan Yang Hu Die Meng” by Huang An.
Honestly, the first time I heard this song ... I must be in secondary school. I didn't understand 99% of the song!!! -.- Might as well said I didn't understand anything. Only know the title has the word butterfly dream in it! -.-
I've no idea why my parents are absolutely crazy about it either but guess now I can understand. Though I still don't understand fully but I grasp one of the sentence which is 知多知少难知足 (zhi duo zhi shao nan zhi zhu). It means, knowing much or knowing less will still difficult to make one's satisfied in knowing anything.
How true .... How trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ....
I totally relate to this.
You can know so much.
You can choose to be totally ignorant.
But you still can't be satisfied.
Guess balance is the key to everything. I hope all of you may find the balance that you'll ever need.
Video:
Lyrics:
昨日像那東流水 (zuo ri xiang na dong liu shui)
離我遠去不可留 (li wo yuan qu bu ke liu)
今日亂我心 (jin ri luan wo xin)
多煩憂 (duo fan you)
抽刀斷水水更流 (chou dao duan shui shui geng liu)
舉杯消愁愁更愁 (ju bei xei xiao chou chou geng chou)
明朝清風四飄流 (ming zhao qing feng si piao liu)
由來只聞新人笑 (you lai zhi you xin ren xiao)
有誰聽到舊人哭 (you shui ting dao jiu ren ku)
愛情兩個字 (ai qing liang ge zi(
好辛苦 (hao xin ku)
是要問一個明白 (shi yao wen yi ge ming bai)
還是要裝作糊塗 (hai shi yao zhuang zuo hu tu)
知多知少難知足 (zhi duo zhi shao nan zhi zhu)
看似個鴛鴦蝴蝶 (kan si ge yuan yang hu die)
不應該的年代 (bu ying gai di nian dai)
可是誰又能擺脫人世間的悲哀 (ke shi shui you neng bai tuo ren shi jian di bei ai)
花花世界 鴛鴦蝴蝶 (hua hua shi jie, yuan yang hu die)
在人間已是癲 (zai ren jian yi shi dian)
何苦要上青天 (he ku yaoshang qing tian)
不如溫柔同眠 (bu ru wen rou tong mian)
Honestly, the first time I heard this song ... I must be in secondary school. I didn't understand 99% of the song!!! -.- Might as well said I didn't understand anything. Only know the title has the word butterfly dream in it! -.-
I've no idea why my parents are absolutely crazy about it either but guess now I can understand. Though I still don't understand fully but I grasp one of the sentence which is 知多知少难知足 (zhi duo zhi shao nan zhi zhu). It means, knowing much or knowing less will still difficult to make one's satisfied in knowing anything.
How true .... How trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ....
I totally relate to this.
You can know so much.
You can choose to be totally ignorant.
But you still can't be satisfied.
Guess balance is the key to everything. I hope all of you may find the balance that you'll ever need.
Video:
Lyrics:
昨日像那東流水 (zuo ri xiang na dong liu shui)
離我遠去不可留 (li wo yuan qu bu ke liu)
今日亂我心 (jin ri luan wo xin)
多煩憂 (duo fan you)
抽刀斷水水更流 (chou dao duan shui shui geng liu)
舉杯消愁愁更愁 (ju bei xei xiao chou chou geng chou)
明朝清風四飄流 (ming zhao qing feng si piao liu)
由來只聞新人笑 (you lai zhi you xin ren xiao)
有誰聽到舊人哭 (you shui ting dao jiu ren ku)
愛情兩個字 (ai qing liang ge zi(
好辛苦 (hao xin ku)
是要問一個明白 (shi yao wen yi ge ming bai)
還是要裝作糊塗 (hai shi yao zhuang zuo hu tu)
知多知少難知足 (zhi duo zhi shao nan zhi zhu)
看似個鴛鴦蝴蝶 (kan si ge yuan yang hu die)
不應該的年代 (bu ying gai di nian dai)
可是誰又能擺脫人世間的悲哀 (ke shi shui you neng bai tuo ren shi jian di bei ai)
花花世界 鴛鴦蝴蝶 (hua hua shi jie, yuan yang hu die)
在人間已是癲 (zai ren jian yi shi dian)
何苦要上青天 (he ku yaoshang qing tian)
不如溫柔同眠 (bu ru wen rou tong mian)
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
People Are Selfish
You must be thinking ... what the hell ... this woman has been missing in action for so long and now the title of her first post is people are selfish? Has she just returned from the brink of depression or what?
Haha ... don't worry. I'm fine. :-) I just want to say things that I've been wanting to say for so long, which is the title of this post. I don't mean selfish in a bad way but I can't find what other words to describe people. You may agree or disagree with me. I'm not here to debate. I'm just writing my point of view.
Why do I say that? Because the more I see things ... even the most generous of things in this world, beneath all those are just a hidden motive to make oneself happy / sad / whatever emotion that being chooses at that moment.
Like when you think someone does something nice to you, you think that person is so selfless. But is he/she? Look underneath those, as he/she gives, he/she obtains happiness too. He/she wants to do it in order to fulfill his/her gap of happiness inside the heart. Got what I mean?
Yeah, selfish has one of the most negative connotation I can ever think of. I don't like it that the word means so negatively that it may be just the fundamental character of human being. Nothing bad about it. To put it in a different light, let's simply put, every one secretly is putting themselves first among others. It's not bad either. Because making sure you are okay (as long as you are not harming others), is just the first step of loving yourself. Guess the selfishness I'm trying to point out here is self-love. Hhmmm ...
I'm not writing this to attack anyone who's giving and call them selfish ... I just want to point out that it's just how human is. Don't expect them to be something else because it's a survival skill and gene that we, human beings, have inherited since we were born. And stop being naive that when people are sacrificing something, they are so great and great ... they are just being them ... putting themselves for their own benefits that you may not be able to comprehend. It's just fact of life and nothing bad about it. It is just it is.
Haha ... don't worry. I'm fine. :-) I just want to say things that I've been wanting to say for so long, which is the title of this post. I don't mean selfish in a bad way but I can't find what other words to describe people. You may agree or disagree with me. I'm not here to debate. I'm just writing my point of view.
Why do I say that? Because the more I see things ... even the most generous of things in this world, beneath all those are just a hidden motive to make oneself happy / sad / whatever emotion that being chooses at that moment.
Like when you think someone does something nice to you, you think that person is so selfless. But is he/she? Look underneath those, as he/she gives, he/she obtains happiness too. He/she wants to do it in order to fulfill his/her gap of happiness inside the heart. Got what I mean?
Yeah, selfish has one of the most negative connotation I can ever think of. I don't like it that the word means so negatively that it may be just the fundamental character of human being. Nothing bad about it. To put it in a different light, let's simply put, every one secretly is putting themselves first among others. It's not bad either. Because making sure you are okay (as long as you are not harming others), is just the first step of loving yourself. Guess the selfishness I'm trying to point out here is self-love. Hhmmm ...
I'm not writing this to attack anyone who's giving and call them selfish ... I just want to point out that it's just how human is. Don't expect them to be something else because it's a survival skill and gene that we, human beings, have inherited since we were born. And stop being naive that when people are sacrificing something, they are so great and great ... they are just being them ... putting themselves for their own benefits that you may not be able to comprehend. It's just fact of life and nothing bad about it. It is just it is.
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